
“The Lord has sought out a man after his own heart and appointed him leader of his people.”
1 Samuel 13:14
“You have not been like my servant David, who kept my commands and followed me with all his heart, doing only what was right in my eyes.”
1 Kings 14:8

COMMENTS: Jesus declared the disciples to be His friend (John 15:14-15) while including the cost as well as the benefits of that friendship for both them and for Himself. They didn’t understand or grasp what He was telling them nor what the cost of that friendship would be for Him first and for them later, but as they began to grasp His Words, they began to embrace that friendship and the cost of that friendship, the cost to Him but also embrace the cost to each of them. Below are some verses supporting this truth. God is passionate about His relationship with each of us, a relationship that includes a deep genuine friendship that resembles a parent child – a close friend – a husband and wife – a Creator and creation relationship. Our relationship with Him has many facets and we would do well to explore and seek all facets of our relationship with Him too. He is our best friend but far more. He is our God and Creator and sustainer but even more. He is our Father and Counselor and Protector but even more.
James 2:23
And the Scripture was fulfilled that says, “Abraham believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness”—and he was called a friend of God.
John 15:15
No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.
John 15:14
You are my friends if you do what I command you.
John 15:13
Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.
Do you have a current “best friend”? Reflect back on best friends of the past as well as current one. To sustain a friendship from childhood to adulthood and beyond is a special and rare blessing. Usually friendships die due to betrayal or negligence due to distractions, other priorities, or distance, or change in each’s interests and priorities.
Friendships take work and time to sustain by both. The cost of sustaining friendships is significant but well worth it. That is true of human friendships but especially true of our relationship with God. We only have our love and devotion to give God but that is all we have to give. He has so much more to give, and wants to give to each of us, but we need to accept Him and His Love and Grace.
Joni Eareckson shared a story about Mary Lance who asked God to introduce her to His best friends. She wanted to meet believers who rested on God’s favor and had hearts and minds bent on pleasing Him.
As He allowed her to cross paths with some, she gained insight and wisdom on changes God made in their lives and how they opened themselves to give and received from Him. She also discovered the joy they gained but also began realizing the joy God gained from them.
She wasn’t disappointed and gained many genuine friendships herself with many of those God brought to her.
She also discovered suffering and pain was included in their experience but not a damper on their joy and confident faith and hope in Christ. Suffering only served to make them stronger and wiser and more giving.
She discovered people who’s lives were deep, their joy fervent, energetic and filled with purpose, but rooted in peace and confident.
Mary also discovered the importance of “Waiting on the Lord”
Isaiah 40:29-31 “He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.30 Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; 31 but those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”
Mary also shared that suffering many of them endured demonstrated , like Job,
“Though he slay me, yet will I hope in him” (Job 13:15).
God shows no favoritism. The Gospel is open to all. But I believe that God reserves special affection for certain people–David was one, a man who sought after God’s heart.
So, are you ready to ask God to introduce you to some of His best friends too? How about us, like Mary Lance, ask Him to introduce us to His “Best Friends” too and see what wonderful examples and friendships we discover? AMEN? AMEN!
“I would love to know your best friends, Lord. Would you introduce me to them?”
THE MOST WONDERFUL TRUTH IS “JESUS WANTS TO BE YOUR BEST FRIEND. YOU DON’T NEED TO SHARE HIM WITH OTHERS, FOR AS GOD WE DON’T NEED TO WAIT OUR TURN. HE IS TO EACH ONE WHO ACCEPTS HIS FRIENDSHIP AS THOUGH HE IS BEST FRIEND ONLY FOR THEM FOR HIS POWER AND ABILITIES ARE WITHOUT LIMIT. THERE IS MORE THAN ENOUGH OF HIM TO GO AROUND!