Talk, Don’t Argue

Ecc 6,14

But indeed, O man, who are you to reply against God? Will the thing formed say to him who formed it, “Why have you made me like this?”

Romans 9:20

RECOMMENDED READING: ECCLESIATES 6:10-12  “10 That which hath been is named already, and it is known that it is man: neither may he contend with him that is mightier than he.11 Seeing there be many things that increase vanity, what is man the better?12 For who knoweth what is good for man in this life, all the days of his vain life which he spendeth as a shadow? for who can tell a man what shall be after him under the sun?”

COMMENTS:  Have you ever tried to have a rational conversation when emotions and opinion run strong?  The conversation starts out ok but unchecked digresses to shouting, each trying to convince the other they are right and other is wrong.  How about doing so with a toddler or, well, how about with a teenager or even a mate?

No one likes to be told they are wrong, especially in public or related to something they have done for many years.   No one likes to be told what they do or relationships they may have with certain people is wrong or destructive or even dangerous.

So, is it better to avoid conflict and ignore concerns and dangers those we care about or concerned about?  Is there a better way to express those concerns with hope of persuading them to change?

Well, as I reflect in a few times I was the one needing convinced and times I was the one trying to convince, I also realize God’s Holy Spirit continues to work hard trying to convince you and me to change and draw closer to Him and further from satan and his mischief.  Further from the world’s lures and empty promises and closer to living and following Christ’s example and the Holy Spirit’s lead.

No one except Christ lived on this earth without sinning.  You and I are infinitely far from living His perfect example.  So that means none of us are qualified or worthy to judge each other.  Sometimes we may come across as judging others when we are only trying to guide them down a better path.  So, when does sharing concerns stop and judging start?  Maybe reflecting on how God has dealt with us over the years and how we have responded to Him.  There is a time to express concerns, there is a time to instruct by example, there is a time to seek help from others.  There is also a time to back off and simply pray and let God do His work without our help.  THAT IS THE HARDEST FOR A PARENT OR GRANDPARENT, BUT NECESSARY.  Otherwise, the likely result is to alienate those we care about from us and further entrench them in behavior and choices that may be destructive or just harmful.

Well, Solomon also has something to say about arguing with God.  “Ecc 6:10-11”.  Have you ever tried to convince God you were right when you knew in your heart He was right and you were wrong?  How futile is that?  Well, maybe it was futile but might have been necessary to convince yourself to shut-up and listen.  Consider just how patient He was then and still is to endure our rebellion and hard hearts and stubbornness when He could destroy us in a heart beat or let us end up in the belly of a whale like Jonah.  But also consider ways He did get our attention when we were headstrong. 

God won’t be ignored or refused or disobeyed forever.  Sooner or later we will face the consequences of our actions unless we repent, seek His mercy and forgiveness, and start down the path of obedience and away from the path of disobedience.  Down a path to eternal life and joy and love and away from the path to death and misery and bitterness and hate.

Pour out your thoughts and concerns to God. But do so ready to trust in His will (Philippians 4:6-7; Hebrews 4:16).   AMEN?  AMEN!

 

“To obey God’s will is to find the fulfillment of our lives.”   David Watson

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