
A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1
RECOMMENDED READING: Proverbs 15:1-4 “A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.2 The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly,But the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness. 3 The eyes of the Lord are in every place,Keeping watch on the evil and the good.4 A wholesome tongue is a tree of life,But perverseness in it breaks the spirit.”
COMMENT: Consequences of uncontrolled anger is well documented throughout history starting with Cain killing Abel and being cast out of his family and becoming a wondering nomad the rest of his life. Even more unfortunate was Cain’s family enduring that same judgment for generations afterwards.
Angry words destroy marriages, parent – child –grandchild relationships, destroy business relationships, destroy friendships, and destroy personal and professional relationships… Anger causes loss of joy and happiness, loss of income and possessions, loss of life and quality of life. Anger impacts every one in every generation and every location and every age. Anger generates energy to respond as well as emotion. Anger can be productive if controlled and channeled to produce change but is never productive when uncontrolled or left to be channeled against another. Revenge is never a good thing but channeled anger to stop or prevent hard can be good and needed. So anger requires control and thought and support to be channeled properly.
Thoughts are just as important to control as actions. Reason is thoughts always come before actions. Granted, thoughts unrestrained can immediately go to action, which become “crimes of passion” or lapses in “sanity”.
A recent devotion spoke of Roger Dawson, a respected Business Negotiator, who provides life training for business executives to gain skills in negotiating good deals in tense settings. Dawson’s advice is “Be careful what you say at the beginning. If the other person takes a position with which you totally disagree, don’t argue. Arguing always intensifies the other person’s desire to prove their right” regardless of evidence otherwise.
Solomon, 3000 years ago, endowed with unprecedented wisdom by God, gave us the words above recorded in Proverbs, which gives similar advice.
Well, even though wise words relating to anger management are freely available from both secular and Christian literature and experts, where can we go to get foolproof help?
Where can we go to not only get wise advice and instruction, but one on one help and encouragement and strength to gain control over anger?
Where can we go to find someone who will warn us and calm us when we become angry and weak?
The answer is the source of Solomon’s wisdom. The source of successful defeats of anger in every generation. The source of positive transformed lives without charge or fee. The source that is readily available and willing to devote 24x7x365 100% focus and His full resources to guide and walk us through victory over our anger. That source is none other than God Himself. His Holy Spirit was and is God’s abiding presence with all God’s resources and abilities and wisdom and experience fully available to use. The only reason stopping Him from doing so is our invitation and willingness to let Him into our lives and our willingness to submit to Him and follow His council and conditions. We must believe and know that He only has our best interest in mind and loves us sincerely and far more deeply than anyone else does or can. WE CAN FULLY TRUST HIM AND NEED TO IF WE EVER HOPE TO HEAL AND AVOID DAMAGE DONE BY ANGER AND AVOID FURTHER DAMAGE.
Gentle does not mean weak. Peaceful doesn’t mean compliant. Restrained doesn’t mean defenseless. No, quite the opposite. Jesus was neither weak, nor complacent, nor defenseless.
“Hot heads and cold hearts never solved anything.” Billy Graham
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Don McDaniel - Who am I?
Hello everyone and welcome to my devotional journal blog. In order to get acquainted and help you get to know me a bit better before considering following my blog, let me give you some background. I am a 74-year-old male and a retired engineer. I worked for a major supplier of underground mining equipment for nearly 40 years before retiring in 2012. Arlene and I have been happily married since April 1978 and have two grown – married children, one granddaughter and 2 step grandsons. I joined the local United Methodist church at age 12 after accepting Christ as my Savior at age 10 during revival services in that same church in 1961, so I have been a “Born Again” Christian all my teen years and adult life. Christ has helped and guided me all that time. He guided me in choosing my wife and life’s career. My life journey has included regrets and failures, but God has picked me up and protected and spared me from life threatening consequences and dangers more times than I can recall or count. But many I do recall and encourage and motivate me to trust and follow Christ with more passion than ever.
Christmas 2011 our daughter gave Arlene and I each a devotional journal. Journals were books with devotion for each day and space to give personal impressions and thoughts related to each devotion. Her desire was to have a lasting legacy she could refer back to and share with her children and grandchildren especially after we are gone. I was touched by that gesture. My parents and Arlene’s were devout Christians, so we would have greatly treasured having that from them, so we felt a sense of urgency to honor her request. I finished my journal first and returned it to our daughter the following Christmas. I’m glad I did it then because Parkinson’s has caused my hand writing to deteriorate since then. The exercise was such a blessing for me. Discipline of keeping journal helped me gain a deeper walk with Christ and greater discipline in honoring my time of prayer and devotion with Him each day. So, I decided to continue the practice but since I could not find a paper journal I liked, I decided to create my own. I had already been receiving electronic devotions by email every day from several sources, my favorite being “Turning Point” from Dr. David Jeremiah. What I decided to do was to include devotional scripture but add my own thoughts and comments only so there would be no issue of copyright infringement. Creating and maintaining journal by computer also addressed my deteriorating handwriting ability. I started an electronic devotion journal January 1, 2013 and have been faithful to that practice every day since. I prayed about method and level of distribution. My initial intent was to only share it with my two children by email, but quickly discovered others in my family, my church, and friends from work (both retired and still working) who knew me and wanted to be included in distribution when they learned what I was doing. I now distribute by email my daily journal at the beginning of each month to over 150 friends and relatives. God has richly blessed and encouraged me.
I am concerned with the state of our church and nation, and world for that matter, believing we are living in the end times the prophets of old and Christ have talked about in scripture, so time is short. I desire to be true to my Savior and a witness to help others come to a saving knowledge of Him and equipped to share His Good News too. If my journal can encourage and help others, I believe God wants me to share it. I struggled, for a time at first, because I know many others keep similar journals but only for their own edification and do not want to share them because they are private.
However, Christ has stirred my heart to share it as a witness tool.
Our son and daughter have a long-time friend who grew up with them who we also befriended nearly 25 years ago. He had a lot of family problems, so would gravitate to our family as a refuge and eventually thought of us as his adopted parents and he as our adopted son. We lost contact with him for some time when he grew up and left home. He traveled around the U.S. and eventually ended up in Ukraine where he resided for next 10 years. He had to return to the US to renew his visa and took opportunity to recommend I begin a blog of my devotions and helped me set it up. He is also an active blogger and has been an email subscriber to my journal for several months, so he has been suggesting I expand my distribution by starting a blog to get broader exposure. After reflection and prayer, I concluded God was in this, so he is helping me set up my blog site. This brief autobiography is my first entry.
He returned to Ukraine, then resided there until circumstanced made him decide to move back to US with his young son. This biography was my first post February 29, 2016 .
I have published 600 posts from 2016-2023 automatically sent to all my Facebook friends, published on WordPress to be accessible to anyone curious or seeking a deeper walk with God. I decided to take a sebatical to prepare for a new chapter. In 2014 I was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease which affects patient ability to walk, drive, do physical work, and eventually talk. By mid 2023 it became evident our home for last 42 years (previously owned by my parents for previous 44 years and by my mother's grandparents for 39 years before that) would eventually not meet my needs so we decided to sell it and move into 1st floor of a duplex we also owned that was the town school from 1855-1913. Likewise, the property was requiring more maintenance that I was no longer able to keep up with. 2023 involved selling our home and moving into apartment next door and then in early 2025 an opportunity to move closer to our daughter and granddaughter in Kentucky which was completed in May 2025. For a number of months I have been seeking direction seeking God's direction and timing to return to blogging as my journey with Parkinson's continues to unfold with God's guiding hand in mine.
I hope and pray my devotions will continue to be a blessing for you. God certainly has become closer and more real to me since started this blog in 2016. I have spent time with Him studying scripture and praying and listening and writing this journal. I will continue seeking God’s help and will welcome your input to make this site as meaningful as I can and true to God, who is motivating me to create and maintain it. I will also welcome input in order to make format more meaningful going forward.
Don & Arlene McDaniel
In His Service,
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If you wish, you can access my blog at “https://donsdevotions.wordpress.com“. There you will find 600+ blog posts I have made plus a link to my devotional journal material archives from 2013 to present (https://donsdevotions.wordpress.com/2016/03/02/link-to-dons-devotional-journal-entries-2013/ )
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