Anger Management

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Do not hasten in your spirit to be angry, for anger rests in the bosom of fools.
Ecclesiastes 7:9

RECOMMENDED READING:  Ephesians 4:25-32
  “25 Therefore, putting away lying, “Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,” for we are members of one another. 26 “Be angry, and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, 27 nor give place to the devil. 28 Let him who stole steal no longer, but rather let him labor, working with his hands what is good, that he may have something to give him who has need. 29 Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. 32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.”

COMMENTS:   Anger is a powerful emotion empowering / motivating / energizing individuals or group of individuals to do or say things (either good or evil) that they could or  would not be willing or able to do without that emotion.   What motivates anger and where does this emotion come from?

Anger isn’t necessarily bad by itself but has resulted in much evil and destruction since Cain killed Abel.  Both evil motivators like jealousy and pride and selfish ambition has sparked anger against obstacles to achieving goals those motivators create.  But injustices and abuse against those we love or have compassion or empathy for can cause “righteous anger” against perpetrators and against obstacles to  their healing.  

There is a time and place for anger but those are far rarer than the instances evil is the motivator and result from anger.  Yet righteous anger can well up in those seeing result of sinful anger causing evil.  The emotion of anger may be the same but source is  very different.  Satan can inspire and spark evil anger while God inspires “righteous anger”.  Yes, satan is very skillful and frequently imitates God’s handiwork for evil purposes instead of God’s intended purpose for good. 

James 1:19-20 “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.”   Human anger usually is motivated by our own sinful pride or selfish wants and desires.  Eruptions in anger unrestrained become more common and harder to control as we yield to them more.  Likewise, the more  we fight them and seek help from Christ with aid of the Holy Spirit, the weaker they are and easier to control.  But anger will continue to be a sleeping lion ready to pounce.  Anger has destroyed  the most precious and life giving  relationships between spouses and children and family members and even work relationships and friendships.   How many wars and resulting destruction had their inception in anger?

 Anger is not limited or confined to our circumstance but has its start in our hearts.   Circumstances can provoke our anger but the source of the underlying rage of our anger lies in our own soul.  Anger has its beginning in our own thoughts and minds.

So the best way of controlling and dealing with anger is by filling our minds with God’s Word instead.   Consider our minds being a container that can either be filled with anger or love.  With God’s Words of life or evil words of death.   With memories of those who loves and care for us or memories of those who abuse or mistreat us. With memories of our experiences and relationship with Christ or memories of satan’s influences and sins he lured us to commit.

Some verses to help deal with anger:

Ecclesiastes 7:9  “Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit,  for anger resides in the lap of fools.”

Ephesians 4:25-32  “25 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. 26 “In your anger do not sin”[a]:Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold. 28 Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.

29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

“Anger is short-lived in a good man.”  Thomas Fuller, Puritan

 

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