“When God Says No”

                  When We Pray                                         

Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.  Matthew 11:28

Recommended Reading: Deuteronomy 34:1a, 5a –“ Then Moses went up from the plains of Moab to Mount Nebo, to the top of Pisgah, which is opposite Jericho. And the LORD showed him all the land … So Moses the servant of the LORD died there in the land of Moab”

COMMENTS:  It is a wonderful experience when God provides a dramatic healing from disease or blesses with an open door to a new job or marriage partner or new child or grandchild or ??  When God answers yes to our prayers, it is a wonderful time of praise and gratitude expressed towards God and for celebration.  Take some time to reflect on such experiences.  A noteworthy example for me was God’s answer to a 3 year prayer for a Born Again Christian spouse.   God answered that prayer through a mutual friend who didn’t know either of us had been praying this prayer but was who God compelled to plan for us to meet.   The first attempt by this friend was one year after I began praying but meeting didn’t happen until 2 years later.  Why?  Well, we have had 42 years to debate that but truth is God needed to prepare us both and He did.  In our case His answer was “soon” or “not yet.” 

There were a number of times during difficult situations at work when I prayed for God to call me into ministry because I felt as though I was not making a different at work and work I was doing was not important in His service.   He said “No, if you can’t serve me where you are, why do you think you will as a pastor in a church?”    That answer changed my heart and attitude and thinking.  The next 20+ years became an opportunity to live and work and interact  with an attitude and integrity and humility and compassion and even sense of humor that gave me many opportunities to witness and pray with a number of individuals I would never have met or ministered  to  outside the connections my job required and gave me.  His answer was yes to a better response to my prayer than I was asking for.

Can you recall times God answered NO to your prayers?  How about times He said “Not Yet”?   It is good to reflect and discover how God uses no or not yet to prepare us or others for a yes answer, or to prepare a better answer than the one we asked for.   We should remind ourselves He knows and develops much better answers than we can imagine.   Keep in mind He is infinitely wiser and intelligent and insightful than us, but He is also including impact on others and their impact on us by each response to our prayer He considers.  No wonder His response sometimes is “No” or “Not Yet” sometimes or even often.  It is probably more amazing when He does say “Yes” immediately after considering all the other options.  Learning patience and enough faith to completely trust His decision and timing is a lifelong challenge and journey of growth for every Christian, especially me.  How about you?

Well, we are in good company because many well known patriarchs and matriarchs from Old Testament times struggled with God’s answers too.  Joseph enduring rejection and slavery in a foreign land away from family and unjust prison time before God revealed His answer and miraculous path to His God planned purpose.   Moses endured 40 years of exile and later 40 years of wilderness wondering and then denial of entry into promised land.  Moses’ response for God’s refusal to let Him into promised land because of one act of disobedience (Deut. 32:51) did disappoint Moses but Moses knew God knew best and submitted without protest to  God’s decision.  His love for and trust in God had matured through the 120 years of life and  especially the 80 years of walking  with Him in faith and obedience.

Even Jesus prayed for the Father to spare Him the cross and burden of bearing our sins He was about to endure, but then submitted to the Father’s decision that His sacrifice was the only way for our salvation.  Jesus knew that but needed to ask.  

Today when we pray, we are praying to the Holy Spirit and to Christ and to the Father.  The mystery of the Trinity is beyond our comprehension.   They are One God since all 3 think identically and are 100% in sink and agreement together  even though the Holy Spirit focuses on directing and guiding and counseling and empowering and inspiring each of us toward honoring and worshipping and praising and loving Christ.  Then Christ, as our redeemer and Lord intercedes to the Father.   But the fellowship and relationship we have with Christ through the Holy Spirit included all Three of the God Head.   You say, I don’t understand that!  Well, I don’t either, so we each likely have a different way of describe our limited understanding of Trinity and God.  So we can disagree and still have a genuine growing relationship with the same Triune God.   So best we can do is recognizing we both have so much more to discover about God, who we both know and love.   But when we both pray and both receive yes and no and not yet answers, we both can believe God is worthy of our love and trust and obedience.  We both can agree on responses that are from God because those responses agree with God’s character and commands and supporting scriptures in Our Bible.

I am reminded of the statement “God either calms the storm or calms us”.  He either removes the danger or leads or even carries us thru the danger.  He either defends us or takes us home.  No matter how He chooses, we always win when we place our trust in Him.  AMEN?  AMEN!
PRAYER: Dear Lord, help me to deal with the times You tell me “No,” and to continue trusting You and Your love. Amen.

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