Words Like Honey  

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Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the bones.
Proverbs 16:24

RECOMMENDED SCRIPTURE READING ROMANS 14:12-2312 So then, each of us will give an account of ourselves to God.13 Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister.14 I am convinced, being fully persuaded in the Lord Jesus, that nothing is unclean in itself. But if anyone regards something as unclean, then for that person it is unclean. 15 If your brother or sister is distressed because of what you eat, you are no longer acting in love. Do not by your eating destroy someone for whom Christ died. 16 Therefore do not let what you know is good be spoken of as evil. 17 For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit, 18 because anyone who serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and receives human approval.19 Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification. 20 Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. All food is clean, but it is wrong for a person to eat anything that causes someone else to stumble. 21 It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything else that will cause your brother or sister to fall.22 So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the one who does not condemn himself by what he approves. 23 But whoever has doubts is condemned if they eat, because their eating is not from faith; and everything that does not come from faith is sin.[c]”

COMMENTS:   Our words are our most powerful  weapons and tools, providing either healing or destruction.   They endure and provide lingering effect (either positive or negative) for many years or even a lifetime when linked to strong emotions.  Words that cause great grief or anger burn memories that remain fresh and impactful for a lifetime.   Words that cause joy and healing can do so too.   Unfortunately, destructive words are becoming more common in families and healthy healing words more rare, resulting in an increase of family crisis and separations.  Consider the increase in school and public shootings and terroristic attacks tied back to adults or teens from broken homes or hateful acts of those from such homes bullying vulnerable children.   Satan’s evil work continues to do sinister damage to children and families and adults, resulting in unsuspected consequences to unsuspecting victims.

Consider the Golden Rule Christ gave us, Matthew 7:12 – “12 So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.”

Honey is an ancient and natural sweetener familiar to people long before biblical times recorded in our bible.  Honey is still  a common sweetener today in spite of many other sweetener options available.  In moderation, honey is reported to not only make foods taste better but provide nutrients that aid  the body resist many illness. 

Fools are quickly exposed through their foolish and thoughtless words, but wisdom is exposed by silence and infrequent well thought out words.  Words that sweeten like honey are not just pleasant to receive always but do bring health,  However , wisdom in presenting healing –  wise words in a way that makes them pleasant or appealing helps tear down resistance and close minded attitude towards them.

Lies often are given or presented hidden with sweet words to make them appealing, but truth can be presented with sweet words of encouragement to soften resistance as well. No, I am not saying to use vain flattery. But truth can be presented either with a critical condemning spirit or with a compassionate spirit.   Matthew 7:12 reminds us to treat people the way we would like treated.   To present truth and council and suggestions in a way we would prefer to be given.   

Paul told the Romans to pursue “the things by which one may edify another” (Romans 14:19)—and that certainly includes our words.

Look for a way today to build up and encourage another person by the words you speak to them. Let your words be like honey to their soul.

Whatever moves the heart wags the tongue.  C. T. Studd

 

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