In the multitude of words sin is not lacking, but he who restrains his lips is wise.
Proverbs 10:19
Recommended Reading: Proverbs 26:20-21 “Where there is no wood, the fire goes out; And where there is no talebearer, strife ceases.21 As charcoal is to burning coals, and wood to fire, So is a contentious man to kindle strife..”
COMMENTS: Have you known groups or individuals who seem to thrive on finding and exploiting strife in others? They have a way of pushing other’s “buttons”, especially with family and friends and co-workers they know and claim to love. Doing such is like putting wood on a fire or even gasoline on a fire in emotional conditions.
The only way to put out a fire is to remove one of 3 things fire needs: heat, oxygen, fuel. Satan does all he can to keep the 3 ingredients for us to continue sinning: temptation, lack of God’s presence, and self pride. When we take our eyes off satan and on Christ, it is like putting water on the fire of sin (removing heat of). When we run from temptation, we move away from the fuel fire needs to burn. Putting dirt on a fire removes oxygen. As we develop a closer relationship with the Holy Spirit,
When we reflect on the harm and damage the “button pushers” do either deliberately or unintentional, we begin to discover the evil it is and destructive potential it has. How many lives and families have been destroyed? Likewise, such needless harm can end when buttons are no longer pushed and harmful words go silent.
Proverbs 26:20 “Where there is no wood, the fire goes out; and where there is no talebearer, strife ceases.”
Proverbs 10:19 “Sin is not ended by multiplying words, but the prudent hold their tongues.”
James 1:19 “19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”
Proverbs 12:23 “The prudent keep their knowledge to themselves,
but a fool’s heart blurts out folly.”
Words hurt like physical harm cannot, causing unseen wounds that cannot heal on their own. But words can also heal more quickly than physical wounds can be healed too. Ask God to give you wisdom to be silent when needed but also to speak words of healing when also needed. Words that bless and build others up. Words inspired by His abiding Holy Spirit. What would the world be like if everyone were silent or spoke as God directed? What would the world be like if even the 4 scriptures noted above from James and Proverbs were followed for a week by everyone in our family, everyone in our church, everyone in our community? I dare say our community would be on the news reporting the positive change such a commitment made. I dare say old relationships would be restored and many other wonderful things would become evident.
So, how about you and I covenant with God to make this a deliberate focus for the next week and see what happens. Silent when others irritate or push our buttons. Giving words of encouragement when others buttons are pushed. Being alert when tempted to say a thoughtless or hurtful word and stay silent. Being in prayer before respond when witness another saying or doing a hurtful word or thing. Being an example that will encourage better behavior in others even if that example is not received and followed right away or ever. “A sanctified heart is better than a silver tongue.” Thomas Brooks
If you wish, you can access my blog at “https://donsdevotions.wordpress.com“. There you will find 353 blog posts I have made plus a link to my devotional journal material archives from 2013 to present.
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My hope and prayer are, my blog and devotional materials will become a source of encouragement and tools in ministry for you.
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Don McDaniel - Who am I?
Hello everyone and welcome to my devotional journal blog. In order to get acquainted and help you get to know me a bit better before considering following my blog, let me give you some background. I am a 74-year-old male and a retired engineer. I worked for a major supplier of underground mining equipment for nearly 40 years before retiring in 2012. Arlene and I have been happily married since April 1978 and have two grown – married children, one granddaughter and 2 step grandsons. I joined the local United Methodist church at age 12 after accepting Christ as my Savior at age 10 during revival services in that same church in 1961, so I have been a “Born Again” Christian all my teen years and adult life. Christ has helped and guided me all that time. He guided me in choosing my wife and life’s career. My life journey has included regrets and failures, but God has picked me up and protected and spared me from life threatening consequences and dangers more times than I can recall or count. But many I do recall and encourage and motivate me to trust and follow Christ with more passion than ever.
Christmas 2011 our daughter gave Arlene and I each a devotional journal. Journals were books with devotion for each day and space to give personal impressions and thoughts related to each devotion. Her desire was to have a lasting legacy she could refer back to and share with her children and grandchildren especially after we are gone. I was touched by that gesture. My parents and Arlene’s were devout Christians, so we would have greatly treasured having that from them, so we felt a sense of urgency to honor her request. I finished my journal first and returned it to our daughter the following Christmas. I’m glad I did it then because Parkinson’s has caused my hand writing to deteriorate since then. The exercise was such a blessing for me. Discipline of keeping journal helped me gain a deeper walk with Christ and greater discipline in honoring my time of prayer and devotion with Him each day. So, I decided to continue the practice but since I could not find a paper journal I liked, I decided to create my own. I had already been receiving electronic devotions by email every day from several sources, my favorite being “Turning Point” from Dr. David Jeremiah. What I decided to do was to include devotional scripture but add my own thoughts and comments only so there would be no issue of copyright infringement. Creating and maintaining journal by computer also addressed my deteriorating handwriting ability. I started an electronic devotion journal January 1, 2013 and have been faithful to that practice every day since. I prayed about method and level of distribution. My initial intent was to only share it with my two children by email, but quickly discovered others in my family, my church, and friends from work (both retired and still working) who knew me and wanted to be included in distribution when they learned what I was doing. I now distribute by email my daily journal at the beginning of each month to over 150 friends and relatives. God has richly blessed and encouraged me.
I am concerned with the state of our church and nation, and world for that matter, believing we are living in the end times the prophets of old and Christ have talked about in scripture, so time is short. I desire to be true to my Savior and a witness to help others come to a saving knowledge of Him and equipped to share His Good News too. If my journal can encourage and help others, I believe God wants me to share it. I struggled, for a time at first, because I know many others keep similar journals but only for their own edification and do not want to share them because they are private.
However, Christ has stirred my heart to share it as a witness tool.
Our son and daughter have a long-time friend who grew up with them who we also befriended nearly 25 years ago. He had a lot of family problems, so would gravitate to our family as a refuge and eventually thought of us as his adopted parents and he as our adopted son. We lost contact with him for some time when he grew up and left home. He traveled around the U.S. and eventually ended up in Ukraine where he resided for next 10 years. He had to return to the US to renew his visa and took opportunity to recommend I begin a blog of my devotions and helped me set it up. He is also an active blogger and has been an email subscriber to my journal for several months, so he has been suggesting I expand my distribution by starting a blog to get broader exposure. After reflection and prayer, I concluded God was in this, so he is helping me set up my blog site. This brief autobiography is my first entry.
He returned to Ukraine, then resided there until circumstanced made him decide to move back to US with his young son. This biography was my first post February 29, 2016 .
I have published 600 posts from 2016-2023 automatically sent to all my Facebook friends, published on WordPress to be accessible to anyone curious or seeking a deeper walk with God. I decided to take a sebatical to prepare for a new chapter. In 2014 I was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease which affects patient ability to walk, drive, do physical work, and eventually talk. By mid 2023 it became evident our home for last 42 years (previously owned by my parents for previous 44 years and by my mother's grandparents for 39 years before that) would eventually not meet my needs so we decided to sell it and move into 1st floor of a duplex we also owned that was the town school from 1855-1913. Likewise, the property was requiring more maintenance that I was no longer able to keep up with. 2023 involved selling our home and moving into apartment next door and then in early 2025 an opportunity to move closer to our daughter and granddaughter in Kentucky which was completed in May 2025. For a number of months I have been seeking direction seeking God's direction and timing to return to blogging as my journey with Parkinson's continues to unfold with God's guiding hand in mine.
I hope and pray my devotions will continue to be a blessing for you. God certainly has become closer and more real to me since started this blog in 2016. I have spent time with Him studying scripture and praying and listening and writing this journal. I will continue seeking God’s help and will welcome your input to make this site as meaningful as I can and true to God, who is motivating me to create and maintain it. I will also welcome input in order to make format more meaningful going forward.
Don & Arlene McDaniel
In His Service,
Email: mcdanieldonald769@gmail.com
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If you wish, you can access my blog at “https://donsdevotions.wordpress.com“. There you will find 600+ blog posts I have made plus a link to my devotional journal material archives from 2013 to present (https://donsdevotions.wordpress.com/2016/03/02/link-to-dons-devotional-journal-entries-2013/ )
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