Start Early

prov 3,5-6

Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.  Proverbs 22:6
RECOMMENDED READING:  Deuteronomy 6:4-9
  ““Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one! You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.“And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”

COMMENTS:   Education is a life-long pursuit. We learn formally by school in a formal classroom and teacher as children and young adults but our education has only begun at our graduation. Job skills and related tools needed for gainful employment and productive to sustain and maintain life and shelter and provisions for family and personal life are necessary.  But they do not complete our education needs even though we may think so at the time.

No, but just as important as being teachable is discerning and follow valid, accurate, truthful teaching.  How do we do that?   Well, by looking at the school’s and teacher’s reputation from previous students and those using the skills and information shared by those students.   

Parenting is so hard and at times heart-breaking, especially during rebellious periods   when children will not listen to or follow their parent’s council and learn from their experience.  How tragic when children repeat their parent’s mistakes and sins thinking they are smarter than their parents and will avoid their consequences.  Or they think fun and pleasure now is more important and any consequences can be dealt with later when they happen.  Likewise, sacrifices for future gain or blessings are not made.  Such has been common in every generation but temptations are stronger and more appealing and accessible now than ever before.

But, free will is still the wild card that opens even children (and adults) who have had the best childhood and parenting to wonder down the dark path of evil and sin and rebellion.  How many prisoners are PK’s (preacher’s kids) and hardened criminals from the best homes?   Well, even the best of parents are still far from perfect and deeply flawed even though Holy Spirit lead and guided and forgiven.  

Conversely, how many faithful born-again Christians came from broken homes or were raised by abusive parent(s).  Free will not only means freedom to choose rebellion and sin, but free will to choose Christ’s way of forgiveness and redemption and eternal life.  We need often reminded that God loves all equally and He died on the cross as much for the worst sinner as He did for the most respectful Christian.  Both       were equally lost in their sins and equally guilty and doomed, but both equally loved by Him.  That means He strives to persuade both to come to Him with a repentant heart.  When we pray for others, we partner with God so we open ourselves to be instruments of positive influence and impact on others and for those we pray for.  We also open ourselves for Him to do positive change to us too.  Both directions His goal is to bond us positively to each other as well as to Him.  The transforming nature of His presence and Love and Mercy impacts those who yield to them and those who they cross paths with.

I have a step-grandson who is making some poor choices that put at risk completing high school with a welding skill and certification along with involvement in destructive behaviors.  His father and step-mother and others, including us, are not able to persuade him otherwise because he is 18 of legal adult age. 

How much more we must break God’s heart when we disobey Him and go down our own prodigal path!   But truth is He wants our families’ redemption even more than we do, so when we pray in harmony with His Will and desires, we open tremendous opportunities for His influence and power and Perfect Will to move and progress.  He is limited by our choices but not in finding opportunities to use even poor choices and rebellion to soften even the hardest hearts.  When we anger or pride to deafen our longing hearts, we hinder God’s council guiding us too in our common desire.   We can’t understand or comprehend how God interacts with everyone at the same time nor how He will be working in the future to His goals, but past history can give us a close and convince us to trust and follow Him to continue to do so.

So last point is DON’T GIVE UP AND DON’T QUIT PRAYING AND FOLLOWING HIM! The eternal life and future of ourselves but also of those we dearly love is at state.  And many more beyond our current thoughts or imagination.  New Year is a very good time to recommit and refocus.  AMEN?  AMEN! 

 “The secret of home rule is self-rule, first being ourselves what we want our children to be.” 
Andrew Murray

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