A ROPE OF 3 CORDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN

A ROPE OF 3 CORDS NOT EASILY BROKEN                                      [Love] is not provoked. 1 Corinthians 13:5b

SCRIPTURE:  EPHESIANS 4:26-27  “26 Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:27 Neither give place to the devil.”

COMMENTS:  We are told at a young age to avoid dangerous animals and situations. Don’t poke a sleeping bear or kick over a hornet’s nest or play with fire.  We should not provoke others to anger nor allow ourselves to be provoked to anger, which will drive us to say and do things we will later regret.  Love is patient, which means it will not allow us to be easily provoked to anger.  Anger is a choice, as are choices anger will drive us to make once we give in to anger’s passion.  We are told to choose carefully when tempted to anger.  Like pride, anger can blind us to wise choices and only make poor choices visible to us.  Why?  Because blinding us and makes us deaf to God’s voice is what satan works hard to do and can only do that if we let him.  When he blinds us to God’s presence and council, we will only hear his temptations, resulting in becoming defenseless because we have chosen to ignore God.  Satan is no match for God but we are no match for satan when fight him alone.  The old saying “God will not allow us to bear more than we can endure” is only a half truth.  We need the other half to be true.  The other half is “with His help”.  The complete truth is “God will not allow us to bear more than we can endure with His help!”   We forget the latter part and wonder why we fail in fighting temptation and control our tempers and sharp tongue.  Regrets are ultimately the result.  Experience reminds us that is true but every time we fail that memory escapes us and we repeat old sins and mistakes only to later wonder why we did it again.  Well, we need to know our enemy as we need to know our God.  Maybe we need to paste a note on our sleeve to remind us to run to God first the next time we feel anger welling up in our souls.  Think and write down the steps that progress to sin and go to God in prayer first when start to see yourself going through those steps again.  God so wants to help us break that cycle of sin.  But He is a gentleman and will not force Himself on us uninvited.  We must seek His help first and then He will rush in to take over the battle with satan.  I guarantee you satan will run when you call in reinforcements. 

Well, I do not follow this advice and council as often as I need to, but times when I do, I always see a better outcome.  God’s goal is to be in relationship with you and me and for us to also be in relationship with each other. 

Ecclesiastes 4: 9-13 “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.11 Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?12 And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.13 Better is a poor and a wise child than an old and foolish king, who will no more be admonished.” God so wants to be that second cord to us but also wants us to support and make each other accountable to be the third cord for each other.  How often does God’s help come to us from others.  Why is that?  Could it be so we can not only make each other stronger but together be in fellowship and relationship with God more strongly together than separately too?  I passionately believe so.  When we try to overcome temptation alone, we set ourselves up for failure and God doesn’t intend nor desire for us to fight temptation alone.  We first need to seek His  help but also to be open and look for those who He will make available to us to help too.

In ministry all too often we try to do God’s work alone.  The result will ultimately be burnout and being overwhelmed to the point of giving up.  The need will be more than we can bear and resources needed far more that we have.  Well, God’s timing is perfect but too often seems late to us, especially when we don’t wait for Him.  We need to wait for reinforcements before acting even on good choices we make.  Waiting for reinforcements whether those reinforcements are other people or God’s guiding spirit, but best when are both. 

This message is a reminder to me because I need reminded daily because I tend to forget and run ahead of God before realizing I’ve done so.  I suspect you have that same tendancy and need reminded too.  Maybe we need to remind each other so we can be that third cord for each other.  AMEN?  AMEN!

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